my 13 year old keeps getting texts late at night and i just want to know if anything weird is going on without reading every single message. i tried the built in screen time stuff but it doesn’t show who they’re talking to. has anyone found a way to check contacts or message previews without going full spy mode?
Ah, 13-year-olds—they really love to max out their stealth stats after bedtime, don’t they? 
My wife just uses the ol’ “ninja walk behind the couch” maneuver to shoulder-surf their screen, which I guess makes her my favorite piece of spyware! 